This morning, I’m thinking about how we are steeped in a culture that worships saviors and skewers villains, that rides into the sunset on a high-horse of good guys and bad guys.
The great American narrative rests on oversimplification, which by definition erases and denies whole swaths of experience and truth.
Celebrity and consumer culture get in bed together to back this up, and they both rely on us thinking we’re not enough and/or our lives are something to improve or escape.
Writing, art, and leadership that ask more of us, that mirror our capacity to grapple with truth and nuance, are more critical and life-giving than ever.
Who or what calls forth and mirrors your multifaceted brilliance, your innate complexity, your ability to think intelligently and act conscientiously?
Who or what banks on your reactivity or self-loathing?
Who or what feeds on your inclination to judge and condemn?
Who or what preys on hero-worship and wins every time you abdicate personal responsibility?
In Yiddish, the word mensch — something we think of as an exceptionally “good” person — simply means “person.” And to truly be a person, a mensch, requires a degree of self-reflection, awareness, integrity, and discernment.
Today I’m going to pay attention to what I’m paying attention to. Where am I choosing — and where am I asleep?